According to the site’s internal data, almost half of their users are between 30 and 49, and 26.5% are over 50.
That makes it one of the dating sites for professionals over 40 to meet someone special.
As people age, they naturally grow less inclined to seek out relationships that are more casual. After you turn 33 or so, staying out past 10 on a school night becomes much more rare.) Also, as we age, the pool of eligible people shrinks, and with it so do the number of opportunities to meet people in the ways people met people in their twenties (well, before Tinder existed): through friends, at parties, at bars, at work, in grad school, wherever.
There's something really comforting to know that, in fact, there are actually tons of people out there who are age-appropriate and are looking for the same thing you are.
The messages you send to each other are entirely up to you.
Again, don’t reveal personal details at the early stages, but get to know each other and find out if you ‘click’.
Tinder is "stupid and harmful because it only makes romantic human connection harder." It is also "a factory and you shouldn't pretend it's even vaguely romantic." And let's not forget that "the adult consequence of living with one’s decisions doesn’t really exist when the next best thing is only a swipe away."Most of the discussion around Tinder has focused on its core demographic: twentysomethings, gay and straight, in urban areas (New York and Los Angeles, where I live, are its two biggest markets), who seem to use Tinder to hook up, boost or masochistically deflate their ego, and/or issue sweeping, usually disparaging pronouncements about everyone they've ever encountered on it.
But I've now come to realize that even though all of the press around Tinder focuses on its popularity with twentysomethings, it's actually the perfect app for someone in their thirties, or older, to find love.
This is your way to ‘sell yourself’ and ensure you catch the eyes of potential matches.
Then you can begin you search of men or women in many ways.
e Harmony is more than just another 30s dating service.
At e Harmony, we help local singles in their 30s find love – true and long-lasting love – every day.
" Certainly, Tinder seems to make it easier to not be vulnerable, to put out a bulletproof version of yourself.