Hello Gentlemen, As you may have heard from popular culture, there are a few rules in which you should wait to contact a girl so you don’t look “desperate”.
The 3-Day Rule occurs when a male meets a female for the first time (usually a bar, cooking class or animal farm) and the male procures the female’s phone number.
Also, some of these aren't "rules" per se, but more like observations or insights. RULE 1: Women communicate in two modes: the way things are, and the way they WISH things were. RULE 2: Women desire attention the same way that guys desire sex. RULE 4: Confidence attracts women even more than good looks.
(That's assuming he actually asks her out or even uses the word “date" in a sentence). I distinctly remember how angry my mom would get when flirty junior high girls called to talk to my cute 7th grade brother.It's apparently much easier to see if she wants to “hang out," which leaves so much room for interpretation, and inevitably lead to an exasperated girl finally asking the guy, “So are we just 'hanging out' or is this a date? She'd give them a short dating etiquette lesson that ended with her abruptly hanging up the phone. "Always waiting for the guy to initiate contact is annoying to most men," says Harold, 35."At some point you need to let him know you're interested by reaching out.It's packed with simple yet powerful tips to help you become a virtual superstar with women. RULE 15: If a woman disrespects you or your time, particularly early in the relationship, don't hesitate to get rid of her. RULE 16: No relationship is a committed one until both people agree that it is. The harder something is to obtain, the more valuable it is perceived to be. RULE 28: Don't reveal too much about yourself too soon. It's packed with simple yet powerful tips to help you become a virtual superstar with women.
RULE 11: Girls will test guys to see how much they can skate by with. Speak your opinions, stand by your convictions, and don't put up with excessive amounts of BS. Until then, anything is fair game for both parties involved. If you want to get to know someone better then say that, and if you just want to go out “as friends" then make that clear too. This is a non-negotiable, especially for a first date. Make eye contact and talk to your date even if it's the longest two hours of your life.Dating just for fun is great for high school kids, but not so great for those 20 and 30 somethings who are ready to get married, so just keep your intentions clear and you can avoid all the awkwardness and ambiguity of “hanging out." 3. Guys should always go to the door to pick up their date, preferably with flowers in hand. They try on five different outfits and spend hours planning what they will wear, but guys, please take a shower. If a guy can't afford to pay for the date, then he shouldn't have asked the girl in the first place. Don't act bored or disinterested (even if you are).Your goal is not to feign permanent indifference and make him beg for you – lots of good guys won’t be up for begging.Your goal is to assess how serious he is about you by allowing him to make an effort on his own accord.So while I wouldn’t advocate the exact regimen of the author – phoning him regularly, for example, isn’t a recommended move – the spirit of her article is correct.