Naughty and raunchy text messages are an integral part of every relationship.
You: Hey – this feels great, and I’d like to keep on doing it if you would, but I just want to press pause for a sec to make sure we’re on the same page. Them: Yeah, I like this too, and if you want to have dry sex, I could be down with that, but that all by itself is great for me, too. Just keep me posted with any changes if you start to feel differently, and I’ll do the same. Alternate Conversation: You: Hey – this feels great, and I’d like to keep on doing it if you would, but I want to stop for a sec to make sure we’re on the same page. (keeps kissing) You: Whoah: it’s really important to me that I take a minute now, so I need you to do that, too. You: You know, if we can’t do things like just take a minute to check in and lay down some boundaries and ground rules – and that’s all I needed to do – while this felt really good, I don’t want to keep going with it. If you’re ready to talk about this another time, you can call me. I’ve been having the hardest time talking about what I like and what I don’t. You: I’d like to keep making out, and I’m probably comfortable with some dry sex if you are, but I know I don’t want to go further than that this soon. You: You know what, let’s stop for a minute and talk.”YOU: “Okay na, she wants to find out if I’m a boyfriend material. This style of chatting makes you appear incredibly interesting. “Leave that boy and come and date me while the offer lasts. Occasionally drop husband jokes on her and let the jokes be possessive in a playfully way.The reason why it works so well is that MOST guys don’t chat this way and when a girl meets a guy who does, she finds him DIFFERENT. MAKING POSSESIVE JOKES: This strategy involves chatting with a girl like she is your wife. Here are more examples: You could send her a night gown picture you downloaded online then say something like“I want to see you on that when I return.It’s too direct and as exciting as it seems, it’s still boring because you leave nothing to surprise.
Your partner may read it, smile and just play along with your mood.
You’re an interesting guy, but you’re struggling with a few things when it comes to talking on Tinder: And because you’re struggling to talk to girls, because you don’t know what to say on Tinder…
you haven’t been able to go from a Tinder match to physically meeting a girl…
[Read: 20 sexy questions to text a guy and seduce him] [Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet] And once you’ve mastered the art of sending sexy texts, read on.
Sending a sexy text to a sexy someone should come naturally.
But have you ever felt awkward to start a naughty conversation through text messages?