I felt like a naïve chump who was the subject of their laughter. If you find yourself in this situation, here are some tips on how to handle it and how to keep from going insane: 1. Plus, when the relationship ends, the only thing people will remember is how you reacted. DO NOT make a scene and get into a girl fight with the girl. You don't' have to be overly friendly to your ex and your friend.
I think, "My ex is dating my friend" is very common, especially if you live in the suburbs, where everyone knows everyone. I remember people in my neighborhood would tell me they saw them out and I would seriously cringe, and then go home and cry. Make sure not to react in front of others because it could get back to your ex and your friend (I mean, your ex friend).
If someone has a different set of values, or lifestyle choices, you may think your friend is doing harm to mind, body, or spirit.
What they are doing is really uncool and unacceptable. Your ex and "your friend" are the ones who should feel stupid, NOT YOU! Their relationship is working because of the "scandalous and forbidden" element. When that wears off, and everyone in the community moves on to the next piece of gossip, and your ex and your friend really get to know each other, the appeal will fade. He or she could be doing this to you to act out his or her passive aggressive anger. Look for an open door to discuss the dating relationship and what you see that may be harmful.Alright, so this is a pretty unusual situation as far as things like this go. I understand where you’re coming from – no one likes to feel like a third wheel.She actually asked me how I felt about it after about a week of not telling anyone, even though we weren't a couple Also I was the first person she told, does this mean she was concerned for me, or even likes me more than I had first thought?
Also we were flirting with each other for a while, and its clear we had a connection, but now my friend went behind my back and knew how I felt, I no longer consider this person my friend and I am willing to do anything to be with this girl. They will support you more than you could have possibly imagined. What are the chances they are going to end up happily ever after? Focus on your kids, your career, and your love life, if you choose. I'm so so sorry." She will still be upset, but at least you're thinking of your friend's feelings. If she goes off on you, at least you can say you handled it the best way you could have. So, let them have their fun and concentrate on making your own life better. I hope you understand that we don't want to hurt you.Or, sometimes the boyfriend or girlfriend may appear to be overly controlling, demanding, or demeaning.If your friend is in a relationship that diminishes self-esteem, rather than enhancing it, pray earnestly and look for ways to build up and encourage your friend.They started going out after I had already told my friend that I really liked this girl, which really pisses me off.