Shy girl guide to dating

Instead I had to rely on my observations and research on what shy women go through.

Like with men, there's variation in how shy women can be towards the opposite sex and dating.

Well rest assured dear introverts, this article is for you.

If she isn't speaking too much at first, it's not because she's disinterested.

It just takes her a little longer to come out of her shell.

I'm writing this article as a follow up to the one I did on what's going on in the mind of guys who are shy and inexperienced with women. Some said that they were shy with men and several of the points in it applied to their own situation.

Others pointed out how shy women have their own struggles as well.

As a self-professed former shy girl, I can tell you that meeting men can be a downright brutal process.

Going out to socials is fun for everyone else but you. This may sound like a contradiction, but you need to be confident in who you are and self-assured that you will get what you need in life. Just because she's shy doesn't mean she's not confident. She simply hasn't had enough time to get to know them yet. Being the center of attention is basically her worst nightmare. Please don't mistake being shy for not being self-assured. Please plan a small gathering as opposed to a huge party where 20 strangers will descend on her at once and freak her out. How to gracefully accept a compliment is probably a thing she has yet to master. It's actually the worst, I don't know why I wore it like this. And then there are the women in their mid-twenties or later who are still very inexperienced (more on that later on).