“I find it comforting to know that her life goes on when I’m not around,” he said. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 26-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 27, married at 28, and prego before 30, she’s looking at life a little differently now.
He is the author of two self-help books and writer for The Huffington Post and Inc Magazine, a regular contributing expert on The Bill Cunningham Show. She has appeared on over 100 national and international TV and radio shows including Dr. Entertainment, 60 Minutes Australia, The CBS Early Show, ABC 7 News, Good Day L.
Lucia is a dating/relationship expert specializing in Cougar relationships, author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, former host of “The Art of Love” on L. A and the KTLA News who called her “The Queen of The Cougar Jungle”. Often younger guys try to outmatch the older guy, by pretending to be more experienced, worldly, wisely and even successful than he is.
So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.
A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.
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Undertanding ourselves, and what is good and bad for us, is key to a better dating future.What the experts say as their top advice when meeting and dating older women: Scot is one of the most recognized and effective dating coaches to both men and women on the global stage.Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Lifetime, Men’s Health and The Wall Street Journal.Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days.As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.Sometimes age differences can seem insurmountable, especially if you are a younger guy, looking to ask an older girl out.